Remember how your parents were always trying to softly “suggest” that you get a haircut and “your own damn place.” I’m not an psychologist, but I think what they were really trying to suggest is that they wanted to see some independence emerge from your man-child mentality.
So, you’ve finally moved out, but moved right in with a woman who might as well be your slave. If she ties your shoes for you, it’s love. You might as well pick yourself up some of these Objects of Co-Dependency, because you are never going to be able to do anything on your own.